I don't know if anyone else here is instructing their children in their traditions and in the skills that go with them or not. Since my kids came to me and asked I have been trying very hard to be a good parent and a good instructor at the same time..I also am trying to make sure that my beliefs and my ex-husbands don't clash so much as to put the boys in a 'you must choose' kind of situation. It is really hard to walk this line... Does anyone else here have a similar situation? I think I am doing pretty well. This weekend was a 'let's sit as a family and talk about some things that cross over' weekend... Next weekend who knows?